How to Help Kids in Blended Families Transition Between Homes

It can be difficult for the kids to go between two houses.   There are several things that can be done to help make the transition easier.  

*   It is important that they each have their own rooms.  That way they have their own space to retreat to so they can adjust back to the different family environment.  

*  Have pictures of everyone in the family hanging around the house.  

*  Have a family meeting once a week where expectations and responsibilities are set.

 *  Set up individual dates with each of the kids so they understand how important they are to the family.  That way they are able to maintain a relationship with their biological parent and establish one with their stepparent.  

*  Always keep the lines of communication open with all of the kids so they get use to talking about things that concern them.

*  Always be consistent in the family routine so they know what to expect.  

How do you help the kids that permanently live in the home adapt to their other siblings coming and going?

It can be hard for these children because they may be close to their siblings.  Younger children may not understand why they are leaving and older children may be sad to see them go.  Here are several things you can do to help them.

*   Set up a calendar and highlight the times their siblings will be there.  That way they are able to mark off the days until they get back to their house.  

*   If you own an ipod have them text their siblings when they are not at the house to keep in contact.  

*  Since it can be difficult for them, have a certain special activity that they do during those times.  That way they are doing something they enjoy and are distracted.  

Transitioning from home to home takes time.  Try to be patient and flexible.  By giving them their space it helps them to transition easier.